First you should know that what problem cause your make-up dilemma. Is your eyes allergetic to these chemical material ? If so you can use some hypoallergenic make-up. If you still feel worried about them ,then try an eyelash curler . The curl will hold and improve the overall appearance of your lashes.
I don't know what your eye health problem is, you may try some colored contacts if you can. They will make your eyes bigger and more clear. You can also use Eyelash curler. Curling your lashes can make a big difference.